JoJo and Jordan’s Relationship Ups and Downs | Engaged

  • Published on: December 9 Okt 2018

  • Real life vs. reality TV... they don't always match up! Wondering what happened when the cameras turned off? We've got all the deets! SUBSCRIBE: http://bit.ly/JoJoEngaged________________FOLLOW ENGAGED: Facebook: https://facebook.com/JoJord...Instagram: https://instagram.com/JoJor...Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoJorda...________________First comes reality TV, then comes engagement, then comes… real life! Jojo and Jordan fell in love in front of millions of viewers and now they’re letting you in on their day-to-day struggles, solutions, and fun along the way. They are navigating life on their own terms- together and engaged! New episodes every Tuesday at 10AM PST. #JoJordanEngaged Kin Original Series
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COMMENTS: 40

  • Derika Buckner
    Derika Buckner   4 days ago

    I love how open and genuine this episode is! It looks like you both are in such a healthy and great place :) warms my heart!!

  • Leri Miles
    Leri Miles   6 days ago

    I thought you made the wrong choice, but since the show ended I am able to see why you fell for him. He looked like a jerk in show. I hate when they do that.

  • Marjorie C83
    Marjorie C83   1 weeks ago

    Excellent talk. I'm a therapist and concur with what you've both shared. Thank you for your honesty xx

  • Sarah Morley
    Sarah Morley   2 weeks ago

    You are such a great couple. You seem so genuinely in love. The way that Jordan looks at you Jojo, that's true love. I'm really enjoying these videos. Sending love from London 🇬🇧 xxx

  • Marissa Autry
    Marissa Autry   3 weeks ago

    You two are such great role models 💜 Very level headed and sincere. You’d be surprised how many young adults don’t know what to look for in a partner. Thank you for being a wonderful couple. So much love and support for JoJo and Jordan! You guys are amazing, please keep making videos 😊

  • christine finnigan
    christine finnigan   3 weeks ago

    Omg..you two are so sweet. You def made the right choice jo jo.. when he looks at you , you can feel the love. Congrats from canada !

  • Kathy Bates
    Kathy Bates   3 weeks ago

    Thank you for sharing! I’m glad you worked through these issues

  • Amal hussein
    Amal hussein   3 weeks ago

    Oh you made me cry too” I am lonely and I need you” what an amazing and sweet word I am glad you both went through those day because I do love both of you! The problem is a lot of people think relationship is just like honeymoon face but the strongest relationship is the one that has ups and downs.

  • Maria Stechschulte
    Maria Stechschulte   3 weeks ago

    Wonderful couple, you seems very genuine and I enjoy watching your videos. You can really see the love between the two of you come off the screen!!

  • Lindsay W.
    Lindsay W.   1 months ago

    Thank you for letting all of us know you’ve had issues, fights, hard times where you’ve thought “maybe this isn’t the right relationship for me”. You two are REAL and that is wonderful to see.

  • RBtv Fun
    RBtv Fun   1 months ago

    I was smiling all time watching this video. My serotonin level went up 😁

  • Courtney Wiley
    Courtney Wiley   1 months ago

    I’ve been a fan of your relationship since day one! I’m currently in a relationship. I live with my boyfriend. We have our ups and downs also. He’s also going through a divorce so that’s a lot of stress for him and our relationship. He also has a child so that’s another factor in our relationship. We also are moving too so there’s a lot of stress going on. We had a huge fight the other night and said some things that we regret. He’s not a very affectionate kind of person. He doesn’t know how to show me he loves me if that makes sense. I am a huge fan of words of affirmation. Physical touch is something that’s big for me in a relationship. He doesn’t know how to express his love for me and tell me that I matter or that I’m beautiful. I have a rare case of anxiety and I also have depression. I’ve been through a lot. I was raped a few years ago and that ruined my thoughts on any type of relationship. I’m trying to be open minded you know? It’s just hard to be open minded and open and ready for change and ready for someone to love me again. So that’s my personal struggle. We work at our relationship every chance we get but it’s not all sunshine and roses. Every relationship isn’t perfect. Hell if every relationship was perfect, then we wouldn’t be having any of these problems. But I guess my question is, is how do we talk to each other without him saying anything that’s a trigger point for me? It’s like he’s always walking on pins and needles with me. He doesn’t want to say the wrong thing and he doesn’t know what the right thing to say is either. How do we communicate in our crazy rollercoaster of a relationship? We have highs and lows just like you guys.

  • Courtney Christle
    Courtney Christle   1 months ago

    How do you know when you’re really in love again after you thought you were once and got heartbroken? How do you know and can be confident enough that this significant other is your one for life?

  • Tayler Parsons
    Tayler Parsons   1 months ago

    I'm so impressed with how you both carry yourselves and your willingness to communicate the struggles you faced. And Jojo I loved how you touched on the different between struggles in a relationship and a toxic relationship. So important to recognize the differences between the two.

  • Robyn Wonnell
    Robyn Wonnell   1 months ago

    I always had high hopes for you two because I could see how equally yoked, if you will, that you were, and are. Seeing a therapist can be a wonderful 3rd party to bat ideas and thoughts off of. It's safe and enlightening, with a good one. You don't have to agree on everything. I love sushi, my husband and daughter don't. They eat teriyaki chicken when I want my sushi fix. They don't like cheese in most things, while I love it. Oh well, I'm the cook. I don't put it on theirs. They hate most vegetables. Oh well, I fix them anyway and they eat a few of them. Find the things you both enjoy and do them as much as you can. Do the things you like as individuals as often as you like too. When you come back together, your time is richer and more appreciated. You two are a perfect match. Be respectful and listen to each other. JoJo, like so many of us girls, we come across as wining when we feel emotional which is most of the time. Try to hear yourself. Jordan, be a good listener and most of that will go away. Keep on keepin on as they used to say. You two are the best!!! When you get to that point, I see a pro athlete in your future children. Not just because of you Jordan, but JoJo will be the best sports mom you've ever seen. I'm sure!!!! Good Luck you two. You don't need it anymore though. You're making your own:-)

  • Danyelle B
    Danyelle B   1 months ago

    I'm just catching up on all your videos. Thank you for REAL! You guys need to be consultants to the new bachelors and bachelorettes!

  • Misa Yoshida
    Misa Yoshida   1 months ago

    I admire you both and your relationship. Thank you for telling how it is that every relationship has its ups and downs and that fights and misunderstandings happen. We're all human and no matter how alike we are to someone or how much we love them, sometimes things get rough. But how a couple reacts to these hard patches, whether to decide there's just too much to be able to push through or to accept that shit gets hard but you're still going to fight for the person you love and the relationship every day, no matter that day holds. Jojo, I sincerely admire you and your strength and I was so damn happy to see you and Jordan rocking out this healthy, loving relationship even though bumps happen some time. You guys give me hope and your story and your advice has really helped me want to be a better me in my relationship and i've been working at it. Thank you for the inspiration!

  • Viktoria Lagos
    Viktoria Lagos   1 months ago

    You guys are such an inspiration! I’ve been keeping up with you guys since your season & I love how you started this YouTube to show how real you both really are. Always stay genuine and personal! I feel like I can relate to you guys even if you guys are celebrities which is so nice! I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and we’ve gone through the exact same things especially in the beginning and it never is easy! So thank you for being so relatable! Love your channel & this video thank you for that ❤️

  • Puja Sangoi
    Puja Sangoi   1 months ago

    This is amazing. Thanks for keeping it real. Favorite bach couple.

  • ABS
    ABS   1 months ago

    Thank you for being actually real and honest. It seriously means a lot and I know bachelor fans must appreciate it too.

  • Melissa DeSoto
    Melissa DeSoto   1 months ago

    The way you look at each other is so sweet! 😍😍😍 Tips? Laugh a lot. Be silly. Take the trip!!!!!!

  • google e
    google e   1 months ago

    wow you two are boring.

  • Liz Porter
    Liz Porter   1 months ago

    Thank you JoJo so nice to know we are not alone through the ups and downs please keep doing these videos!.. Nice knowing that all relationships go through Rough patches but come out on the other side! And become stronger!.. Fighting for the one you Love!

  • CECILIA LIZARDO
    CECILIA LIZARDO   1 months ago

    Guys don't get your own show. I haven't seen a relationship that has survived that yet. This is perfect, on your own time and simple. Great job and thx for keeping it real.

  • Ashley Castro
    Ashley Castro   1 months ago

    This episode really spoke to me as I’m going through similar things in my relationship with communication and such and my boyfriend is working on his anxiety with a therapist and that took a lot of strength for him to do so now I’m just trying to find my strength to always be there for him through his hard times while having a lot of my own insecurities and worries. Thanks for sharing your story!

  • Pratima Patel
    Pratima Patel   1 months ago

    Jordan what type of therapy did you have, life coaching? couples counseling? how many sessions did it take to start to see change? What were the most important exercises you did to produce results in permanent change? for example, not walking away.

  • Positive Chick
    Positive Chick   1 months ago

    It takes two mature people to communicate, work towards a strong relationship and not give up unless there's abuse in the dynamic.

  • Positive Chick
    Positive Chick   1 months ago

    Great relationships takes a lot of work - it involves a ton of patience, constant open communication, forgiveness, laughter, and a genuine desire to commit to becoming the best version of yourselves. Every couple has their own dynamic and creating healthy boundaries is key as well. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

  • Maria Erbes
    Maria Erbes   1 months ago

    I love this so much and the insight on how you two communicated with one another and the learning experience. I've been married for two years now and we are always learning how to communicate the different emotions we go through. We're constantly reminded that the most important thing is just to continue learning how to love and help one another through these bumps in the road, because at the end of the day you chose to be team.

  • Cassidy Quinn
    Cassidy Quinn   1 months ago

    I LOVE that Jordan talked about seeing a therapist, and that it wasn't even because of a HUGE problem, he just went to do it and talk through things. It's so important for guys to see that's ok, and GOOD!

  • Meagan Pesce
    Meagan Pesce   1 months ago

    Do you guys know what your love languages are? Most people do. If so, in my experience, they are usually not the same. In my case, my husband and I have different love languages. If it’s the same for you, how have you dealt with instances where one or both of you aren’t filling each other’s love tanks because you’re both trying to love the other in the wrong love language? I’m not sure if that makes sense. But that is something that my husband and I have struggled with and so far haven’t found a good way to go about correcting it. Any tips?

  • Holland Filippini
    Holland Filippini   1 months ago

    you Both are so brave to put this out to the world and i commend you so much for being real! thank you! so happy you are together!

  • Ralph Mendez
    Ralph Mendez   1 months ago

    the fantasy is for people watching the show, to think that this is a perfect way to meet somebody and that even if you fall in love on the show, that you're going to be able to perfectly communicate and do everything whatever real life hello

  • Kyla N Stoops
    Kyla N Stoops   1 months ago

    Jordan is such a better guy than I thought like wow I have horrible judgment apparently. I’m so happy you guys are together. Jojo was the best bachelorette as far as her heart and personality and beauty. I’m so happy for you guys.